Live in a way that will make you happy to recall how you were in the past so that there are no regrets.
Regrets bring about feelings of negativity and strife. Why torture yourself internally with dwelling in the pool of regret? there is so much joy and happiness to be had in this vast world! Yes you will make mistakes, learn from them and move on. You are only doing yourself a disservice if you choose to dwell on the things you have failed. This means you have not taken your lesson and that you have not grown from it.
It is easy to say that you should choose things of positivity. Life will throw you some curve balls at times. Look on these times of a learning experience. Something that you needed to learn. Something you needed to experience in order to grow within yourself and your journey of discovering who you are!
The discovery of the things that make you genuinely you. the things that make you special. you will experiment. you will experience pains, trials and tribulation. However, these experiences make you a stronger person. You can always choose to either continue down the road of regretful experiences. OR... You can choose things that make you happy!
Look at yourself with a gentle light. Now ask yourself the following:
- Do I live in regret?
- Do I take these experiences as lessons?
- Have I learned from my trials and tribulations?
- If not, why do I choose to stay on the path of negativity?
- Do I choose the things that make me happy?
- Am I living to my full potential?
Everyday is a gift. Your gift to discover so that you may live to your greatest potential! Embrace the gifts and choices you are given so that you may look back on your life and say to yourself "I lived a full life filled with discovery, happiness and self-love!"
Much love and light for all of you!